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[Debate] Is it nice having brothers/sisters?
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Do you have brothers/sisters?
No, I'm a single child
5%
 5%  [ 15 ]
Yes, I'm a big bro/sis
36%
 36%  [ 92 ]
Yes, I'm a middle child
20%
 20%  [ 53 ]
Well, I'm the smallest child
37%
 37%  [ 94 ]
Total Votes : 254

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aichan24
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Joined: 07 May 2008
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Location: United Kingdom

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2008 12:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i am the oldest.. big grin

think having siblings is nice for some reasons:

1) You're not alone
well,sometimes it is fun..but i miss them big grin
2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
no..they always get stuffs from me
3) You can share good/bad moments together.
sometimes.. big grin
4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
yes..especialy my middle sis.. Wohoo!
5) Some Hand-me-down stuffs are nice.
they dont give me stuffs i will..hehe
6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
yes i think it will be fun..but i think i will get to marry first
7) They can protect you.
yes..even im the oldest my middle sis always protect me...

But Maybe having siblings is

1) Annoying....violating your privacy
yes everytime...
2) Always take all your stuffs...
always..
3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes.
yes..hehehhe,,,
4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles.
i think so.,,,
5) They bullied you.
not really...they make me angry..
6) If they're better than you, you'll be compared by your parents.
yes..but not always/..
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makamae88
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Joined: 28 Mar 2008
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2008 11:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the middle child and only girl...its sweet. But I didnt know I had an older brother until I was in 5th grade. Its a long story. So technically I'm the oldest one, but if my older brother is here, I'm the middle. I dont have any biological sisters, but I do have sorority sisters, and I think thats an awesome substitute =)
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puffyeyez
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Joined: 06 Nov 2007
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Location: cloud9 with my newscaster ichiban.. ^_^

PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have a big sis.. we're only 2 in the family but right now i feel like i was the "unica jija" at our house.. she's working at brunei so shes not here.. too bad that i can't hang out with her cause we have the age gap of 13 years! imagine that guys.... cry the cool thing is im using her room and she still have some stuffs there. I also found some interesting things too like letters and notebooks from her high school days! hmmm... fun fun fun!! wink
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mada
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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 4:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have a big sis, then big bro.. and i'm the youngest..

having a sister is fun because there's someone you can talk to, and you'll know what other girls at her same age think..

having a big bro is fun because there's someone who will protect you from the bully guys when you're still in 1st grade.. hehe.. now, hmm.. since, our gap is 3 yrs, we both like tv shows, animes, games... he's the one who you can talk about things like that..

but you can't go against them... you should not shout at them... or else you'll be shut up when they say that "i'm older than you, you should give me respect".. sometimes, they act like they're our parents when you didn't do what they want ... WTH
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mada
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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 4:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have a big sis, then big bro.. and i'm the youngest..

having a sister is fun because there's someone you can talk to, and you'll know what other girls at her same age think..

having a big bro is fun because there's someone who will protect you from the bully guys when you're still in 1st grade.. hehe.. now, hmm.. since, our gap is 3 yrs, we both like tv shows, animes, games... he's the one who you can talk about things like that..

but you can't go against them... you should not shout at them... or else you'll be shut up when they say that "i'm older than you, you should give me respect".. sometimes, they act like they're our parents when you didn't do what they want ... WTH
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siechan
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Joined: 09 May 2008
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a middle child, have one older sis and one younger bro.

When i was a kid, i used to fight with my sis. After that, my sis approach my bro and avoiding talk to me. So I was alone, and being left off. That feeling always making me sad and i was always cry alone in my room. And that makes me sorta like independent now.

But now we grown ups don't do the fight. And she's really nice to me these days.

As for my bro, he is the most wise. When it comes to fight, he try to avoid it and talk to us just after the atmosphere had cooled down.

But i guess, that's the siblings are for. We understand each other and help each other smile
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lemonaddict
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Joined: 19 May 2008
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 11:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the eldest, I have a younger sister and a younger brother. I appreciate having siblings because then you can share chores (and my sister is a JE fan so I can blackmail her by lending her my concert DVDs XD), but then it's usually a plague because sometimes I get the feeling that they are incredibly immature even though I know full well that they're younger than me.

In a way, I can also see why my siblings could find me annoying, because my parents were always discovering stuff with me so if it didn't work out with me they didn't let them even try. Also hand-me-downs aren't necessarily the epitome of fashion. Plus I was a really independent child and did well with my studies, so that can't have helped.

Ah overall I don't mind anymore, besides I'm moving out for university next year so I won't be seeing them as much anymore XD
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chikage
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Joined: 05 Apr 2008
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 7:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the youngest in my family
I got 2 sisters and a brother

I think it's very good to have sibling
The reason is i can get whatever i want from them... Since my big brother ages gap with me is 13 years, with my big sis is 12 years and the 2nd sis is 8 years, i can be consider as independent in my life...

But my life is very lonely cause of the gaps.... I'm always alone at home... cry

My big bro age gap with me is like Sho-chan with his little bro Wohoo! Wohoo!
That why i like sho-chan ne
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bahiyahnor
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Joined: 17 May 2008
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 6:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have two elder sisters, an elder brother and a younger sister.

when i was a kid... i don't really like have bros and sisters. reason being:
1. constantly have to share my belongings - with my younger sister esp
2. younger sister following me everywhere i go
3. my bro liked to play chop-the-head-off with my dolls (he made the game up himself)

but now that i am much older, i find that having a bro and three sisters is probably the best thing. why?
1. they made me feel loved
2. when i am in trouble, they always bail me out
3. midnight talks with my sisters
4. shopping buddies forever
5. big bro always looking out for me
6. lots of birthday presents on my birthday
7. when everyone get together, the house is so lively
8. not once i feel lonely

so, i love having bro and sisters. it's fun... big grin
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Jemdrop
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 12:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm.. This is a hard question cuz some days I hate my siblings and the next I love them again :P

I'm a middle child - An older brother and younger sister

My mum always tells me i've got middle childs syndrome hehe.. I always complain they get everything and I get nothing

When we were kids we used to get along like a house on fire but as we grew up we fought a lot and got sick of each other (probably cuz we were so close) and then my elder brother who I was kinda close to when rebel and it was horrible.. Then we had family issues and now he lives with my dad so I don't get to see much of him anymore which is probably why I get along so well with him.. We don't have to put up with each other for long.

My sister on the other hand I live with and she's younger than me by about two years but we're close in size so she's ALWAYS wearing my clothes but I NEVER wear hers -.- And whenever I see her wearing it and tell her it's mine she blames mum for putting it in her room even though she knew it was mine when she put it on.. But lately we have been getting along better and we both love Arashi so we have something to talk about so there's always ups and downs.. But I think overall I would probably be a totally different person (like because my brother went into a total rebelian stage and I saw what it was like I stayed away from that path) and I thank them for that and wouldn't like to see what it was like without them.

Sorry I blabbed on for so long.. Hope I answered the question ^_^
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efrel
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Joined: 21 May 2008
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Location: Porando

PostPosted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 2:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's a 10 years difference in age between my brother and me (he's 15, I'm 25), so we didn't have anything in common for a long time. He loved me very much and was always acting like me and repeating my words. I should have been glad, but I was annoyed instead. I'm happy we're ok now and he doesn't hate me for how was I treating him before (nothing that bad, I was just ignoring him most of the time, but I know my behavior was hurting him). Now we can finally talk without fighting - he learns to speak Japanese, loves anime and my beloved reggae. I'm only waiting for him to get a little bit older and then we can go to pub together. And i still have to introduce Arashi and dramas to him.
And a special message for him - I love You, Sz.
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sharyn
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Joined: 11 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have an older sis and a younger bro. it's kinda cool, but yah. being the middle kid has its upsides and downsides i guess. I share the same room as my sis, and usually when both of us can't sleep at night, we just start talking. It's really nice to know that there's always someone to talk to. I mean we practically fan-girl together. Even in the car! We start singing songs and do weird stuff. And having a younger bro's kinda fun too cos (yah, i bully him, SOMETIMES). But when we get along, we have the greatest time ever. HAHA. I love my siblings, i guess. (:
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canace
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the oldest, I have one sister and twin brothers... despite that I was a single child for about 11 years?
being a single child really is lonely... and many people thought that I was too spoiled while the fact is that my parent were busy with their own work... but when my mom finally quit working we became good friends and I kinda feel blessed being an only child...

that's why when my mom finally gave birth to my sister I feel soooo jealous... even the grandmas and grandpas and aunts and uncles and cousins and family friends turn their attention to my sister... there are times when I feel like I really hate her, honestly... but then, when my twin brothers appear I actually feel sympathy to my sister because she didn't get much time to get attention...
we're in a very good terms right now (my sis and I)... and even if I was almost eleven years older, she's actually taller than me (I'm not jealous about this, somehow), so we didn't really feel the age gap...

on the other side, my twin brothers are quite a disaster... true! they're annoying and they have already broke a lot of my stuffs (books, vid.games accessories, etc), but despite that, twins are cute when they're cute (??)... and they can be so funny too that they helped me relieved from school stresses...

I honestly prefer being an only child, remembering that I have sister when I finally feel blessed being an only child... but I'd never wanna lose my sister and brothers since they're already part of my life, really, I'd feel really lonely without them... and I'm proud to be their oldest sis... ^^
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nilad5
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 6:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'm not exactly the smallest, i'm second to the youngest. i'm really close with my siblings, and we look out for each other and put family first before anything else. it's great having siblings as caring as them.
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ichatara
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 11:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

im the oldest~ smile
there are good things and bad things about this

my sister *actually its my twin* and my brother kinda respect me
because im the oldest one.
but when we got into troubles *sometimes* they blame me!
i get into fight a lot with my twin. me and her are TOTTALY diffrent
we argued like machine gun! haha

but i prefer to have siblings. im afraid of being alone
my brother is cute thought Heart
even he's 13 in tomorrow tuesday~! smile
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