Do you like or not to know if the boys are dating?

zer0rei · PIKA★★NCHI DOUBLE Joined: 06 Jun 2008 Posts: 233

I don't think any of them should be forced to keep secrets by say, their talent agency or have their private lives exposed by paparazzi. Either of those is unfair in my opinion. However, these things do happen so I think that they should do their best to be a bit covert.

I think it is in their best interests not to let the general public know about their girlfriend/(s) since it'd only make it more awkward/painful if they break-up and everyone is following their news like gossip. If they are getting married, that would be different, I'd say they should be open and proud of that.

So I guess I'd say no I don't want to know about who they are dating, but I'd like to know if they've found happiness and are going to settle down & have a family, but not because really for personal feelings about it, more to do with their privacy and image I suppose.

majestic_fire · Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 7:20 am Post subject:

I kinda of want to know, and i would be happy for them! clapping

They should be able to date! nobody should deprive from that right, especially selfish people who decide to kill themselves just because their favorite idols are dating. There are BILLIONS or boys out there, and one of them may be the right one fore you, but you may never know if you decided to kill yourself....

kuuriku · PIKA★★NCHI DOUBLE Joined: 19 Jan 2008 Posts: 267

I agree with zer0rei about the marriage thing, but I'll be fine if I found out they were dating someone. (Though I'll honestly be a tad bit jealous for a short period of time. ;x)

And some fans just take it too far. Suicide because a celebrity found a significant other? .. Not the best idea. Fans should wish the best for that certain person and their newly found love.

But I do feel bad for the boys under JE.

violettehime · Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 4:35 am Post subject:

i perfer to be left in the dark! itll just ruin everything for me. i dont mind that they are. but i wouldnt want to know. ill probably cry anyways! he he! itll just make me so sad, ~sigh~

! itll eventually happen i know but still ...

ill rather live in my fantasy world with them loving me forever! lol!

nilad5 · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 135

I wouldn't really say I prefer one over the other. I mean, it is something that I'm curious about, but I guess I'm not THAT curious about it. I just enjoy them as entertainers and know that they also have their own personal lives.

addictine · Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 1:06 pm Post subject:

for me... if they're dating someone... i wouldnt like to know... its just... i love nino so much... that i'm being selfish... cry

demo... they should inform if they're getting married so i can prepare myself... ~sigh~

pinkspider · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 23 Apr 2008 Posts: 72

Well, If they were in a real relationship, I'd rather not want to know, and the least see any pictures of it..
I don't know,, it would just be something that I would think of too much..
But although I do hope they get good relationships, for their sakes!

nagoya_mewmew · Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject:

I think the answer to this question lies in how we each view Arashi. Like what role they could possibly play in our lives. For me, I've always viewed them as "5 crazy guy friends." So for me, I would want to know if they are dating someone because I'd want to know if a male friend of mine found a partner. And just like friends in real life, I might be disapproving if the partner is someone I feel isn't good enough for my "friend," but if the partner is someone else I really like, then that just makes it all the better. I think we've all had friends who get a boyfriend/girlfriend whom we either love or hate, right? whistle

Niji_naiz · Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:56 pm Post subject:

I think I would not want to know their relationships if they're just flings. When it's really serious, then I'd like to know.

I have to admit I am a bit (read: a lot) curious about the type of girls they each go for. But except for Nino and Ohno coz that would totally ruin my Ohmiya fantasies lol big grin

Doiha · Johnny's Jr Joined: 22 Feb 2008 Posts: 55

yeah i would like to know, i'm curious on what type of girl they like (not what they say on interviews or magazines) i think it would be interesting to see for what kind of girl they fall ^^

i'm not of the type to think that i'll date or marry them xD so i think that it's pretty healthy and reasonable if they find a good partner

Mishi · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 5:06 am Post subject:

It's weird but it seems like celebrities in the U.S. may have it better in regards to personal life. They can date whoever they want and can choose to let the public know or not (although most of the time they can't control when the public knows about it because of the paparrazzis.)

I love fangirling. But I won't be upset if I find out that Jun is dating. Maybe its easier for me to accept because I'm in a relationship as well. So, sure, I'd like to know if they were.

acantha · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 27 Jun 2008 Posts: 69

Hmmm, this is a really interesting topic... well, I would prefer to know if they're going to get married, but if they're just dating, I would much rather not know. It does seem really selfish, but it's pretty much inevitable that as a fangirl, I'd get kinda jealous. xD

kawaii_ryu · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 13 Aug 2008 Posts: 91

i wouldn't mind knowing if they're dating.. just as long as the girls their dating are truly behave =) lol.. if you know what i mean..
we wouldn't want any additional gravure scandals for our boys =)

yoghoqueen · PIKA★★NCHI DOUBLE Joined: 30 Jun 2008 Posts: 202

I wouldn't mind knowing at all. I've never been the kind of person that fangirls over a celeb. I just like their music and when I watch their TV shows, they make me laugh, but that's as far as it goes for me. I never fantasize about meeting them and being their true love or anything.
So if I would find out either (or all) of them has a girlfriend, I would be totally okay with it, as long as you can tell they're happy.

nylegna7 · Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 7:40 pm Post subject:

I rather not know it if they're dating. It's their lives anyway. smile

Ohno better have someone nice and someone that knows how to cook.