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[Debate] Is it nice having brothers/sisters?
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Do you have brothers/sisters?
No, I'm a single child
5%
 5%  [ 15 ]
Yes, I'm a big bro/sis
36%
 36%  [ 93 ]
Yes, I'm a middle child
20%
 20%  [ 53 ]
Well, I'm the smallest child
37%
 37%  [ 97 ]
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Trick-3
PIKA☆NCHI


Joined: 18 Mar 2008
Posts: 147
Location: Sweden

PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 3:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have two brothers and I'm glad I have it, whitout them I wouldn't fix much stuff in my world.

1) You're not alone
Yes, I'm alone. Both of them has moved out. ~sigh~
2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
Well, yes. Or else I borrow it without permission. unsure
3) You can share good/bad moments together.
Oh yes, me and my younger big brother have shared a lot of moments together.
4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
Yes.. playing videogames och watching a movie. Or drink together.
5) Some Hand-me-down stuffs are nice.
I guess so.
6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
My oldest brother and his girlfriends are planning to get a child. And the girlfriend.. is an idiot so I would prefer them to wait a long time.
My other brother asked me when I would have a baby (Come on, I'm only 18!) then I asked the same question he said that is going to take a long time.

7) They can protect you.
They have. Heart

But Maybe having siblings is

1) Annoying....violating your privacy
Actually no.. It's me who did this.
2) Always take all your stuffs...
No..
3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes.
No.
4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles.
Yes.
5) They bullied you.
YES.
6) If they're better than you, you'll be compared by your parents.
No smile
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robynchan
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Joined: 09 Aug 2008
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the youngest of 2, with an Elder brother.

I love having a brother, he's like one of my closest mates and we share alot of comment interests (No, Arashi is not one of them blaah) so we've always gotten on well. Plus, he's so laid back he's horizontal so he always put up with me when I was younger (A BRAT! grr at me). I wouldn't say he protects me, I'm quite an independant person, but he's always the one to take my mind off something if it's bothering me, which is deffinatly what I need sometimes. I guess it helps that he's only 2 years older than me too, not that big an age gap. Being compared to by our parents is more of a joke really, we have a relazed sibling rivalry XD But I always win, obviously =P He was the person to get me into Manga and Anime and Jdramas so I thank him =D

So yes, I like having a sibling and would hate it if I was an only child. smile
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kuuriku
PIKA★★NCHI DOUBLE


Joined: 19 Jan 2008
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 9:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the youngest, with only one older sister. Even though her 'status' is the older sister, she's like a little sister most of the time. XD She's very cheerful, optimistic and ... basically a free, young spirit. (Despite her hitting 20 in a few months.) I'm pessimistic and old at heart (around the elderly years XDD) so her personality and existence makes up for the jumbungous amount of optimisim I lack.

She and I never fought in our lives--not physically at least. The closest thing TO fighting was arguing, and that arguing was about the proper pronunciation of certain words in English as well as our native language. To other people, it seems pointless, but this is SERIOUS BUSINESS in our household. Haha.

What hurts me a little is that we're drifting a lot nowadays. She's putting her boyfriend before family, but she still watches over me. In a way, she's becoming more like an older sister now; watching over me, make sure I get home safely ... she's even spoiling me, all while making sure her relationship with her future husband is going smooth.

I never show it, nor do I ever tell her, but I appreciate all the things she's done for me. I hope all goes well for her. ♥
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choco_robba
Johnny's Jr


Joined: 01 Aug 2008
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 4:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have an older brother and I'm the youngest (there's only two of us).
I like having an older brother. He does stuff for me and I really look up to him. When we were younger, we physically fought a lot. I guess he aggrevated me because he was bored, or it's fun to bother the younger sister. I don't know what his problem was. Though now that we've grown up, we are really close and get along well. I like having an older brother, I guess I'm kind of a tom boy and in return he is more metro. I think it's an interesting combo.
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pooh love jun
PIKA☆NCHI


Joined: 11 Aug 2008
Posts: 67
Location: somewhere i can see Jun and Arashi

PostPosted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

1) You're not alone
yes,my family have a lot of member and i'm smallest

2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
of course,i can borrow if u want and sometimes,i don't return blush
3) You can share good/bad moments together.
oh yes,me and my big bro sometimes share good moments together
4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
maybe,if we like whistle
5) Some Hand-me-down stuffs are nice.
I guess so.
6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
i don't think so^^![maybe if i want]
7) They can protect you.
of course,they're very strong^^! clapping
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codieb
PIKA★★NCHI DOUBLE


Joined: 25 Jul 2008
Posts: 313
Location: In Arashi's dressing room XD

PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

1) You're not alone
well im always alone cause my bro and sis don't live with me (my bro never lived w/me and my sis just moved out
2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
for my sis i wish but for me bro i steal his stuff lol
3) You can share good/bad moments together.
sometimes like 1 every 2 months
4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
nope
5) Some Hand-me-down stuffs are nice.
i hate hand-me-down especially from my sister
6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
my brothers children is enough for me lol
7) They can protect you.
defintely a yes

But Maybe having siblings is

1) Annoying....violating your privacy
yes my brother is annoying (im the youngest out of my bro and sis)
2) Always take all your stuffs...
no way i wish they would
3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes.
hahaha no (well money when me and my sis have to split)
4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles.
Always.
5) They bullied you.
Of course.
6) If they're better than you, you'll be compared by your parents.
no because im better than both of then lol i wish i would say that infront of them theyll beat me up lol
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kuso_baba
Johnny's Jr


Joined: 10 Aug 2008
Posts: 23
Location: UAE

PostPosted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

1) You're not alone
Thats kinda true.. I hate getting lonely.. I have no one to talk to!

2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
Sometimes.. They can be really egh..especially when it comes to money!

3) You can share good/bad moments together.

Yah especially watching some funny stuff together..then we howl with laughter remebering LOL!

4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
when we tease my mom or beg when we really want something badly!

6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
I wish they would be nephews coz I only have sisters.. need boys in the family!

7) They can protect you.
No boys in the house and I am the eldest.. actually when me and my smallest sister who is 11 years old.. we entered Horror house in the games... I was screaming so loud and was behind my smaller more courageous sister >_>



1) Annoying....violating your privacy

YES! UFF!

2) Always take all your stuffs...
YES! and never put it back where it was.. okay..okay I do the same

3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes.
MONEY ALL MINE.. but as for stuff my mom gets she would share and I just hate it!... as for cakes.. this is how it goes : CHARGE!

4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles.

HArdly Eh?

5) They bullied you.

well ya.. somtimes.. but I can be a bully when I bully my mom BUWAHAHA!
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kuso_baba
Johnny's Jr


Joined: 10 Aug 2008
Posts: 23
Location: UAE

PostPosted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

1) You're not alone
Thats kinda true.. I hate getting lonely.. I have no one to talk to!

2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
Sometimes.. They can be really egh..especially when it comes to money!

3) You can share good/bad moments together.

Yah especially watching some funny stuff together..then we howl with laughter remebering LOL!

4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
when we tease my mom or beg when we really want something badly!

6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
I wish they would be nephews coz I only have sisters.. need boys in the family!

7) They can protect you.
No boys in the house and I am the eldest.. actually when me and my smallest sister who is 11 years old.. we entered Horror house in the games... I was screaming so loud and was behind my smaller more courageous sister >_>



1) Annoying....violating your privacy

YES! UFF!

2) Always take all your stuffs...
YES! and never put it back where it was.. okay..okay I do the same

3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes.
MONEY ALL MINE.. but as for stuff my mom gets she would share and I just hate it!... as for cakes.. this is how it goes : CHARGE!

4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles.

HArdly Eh?

5) They bullied you.

well ya.. somtimes.. but I can be a bully when I bully my mom BUWAHAHA!
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Umoya
Johnny's Jr


Joined: 13 Aug 2008
Posts: 15

PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 7:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is an interesting topic. I'm the youngest. I have two older brothers and an older sister


1)You're not alone
I perfer to be alone my sibling are really loud and I like to relax

2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it.
I don't borrow there things they'ed kill me


3) You can share good/bad moments together.
No you can't not in my family any way

4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something.
There are to many years between me and the rest of my family. Plus were to different

5) Some Hand-me-down stuffs are nice.
This is true

6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway.
True sonce I don't want kids andmy niece is so adorable and I have another niece on the way

7) They can protect you.
This I completly agree with. Even though I'm nothing like the rest of my family I know they will be there if and when I need them

1) Annoying....violating your privacy
To true

2) Always take all your stuffs...
yup

3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes.
not really they have all left home now

4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles.
Yeah...

5) They bullied you.
Being the youngest is tough.

6) If they're better than you, you'll be compared by your parents.
My parents don't want me to be like the rest of my siblings. So they expect a lot more from me andit's really annoying
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uchilove
PIKA☆NCHI


Joined: 24 Mar 2008
Posts: 72
Location: Singapore

PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

wow there are quite a few eldest kids around!!

i'm the eldest in my family and i guess its stressful in such a way that parents expect you to lead your siblings and you have to be a good example.
my mom has got a tendency of blaming me whenever my sister does smth bad.
for example, when my sis started listening to music while she studied, my mom blamed it on me saying that it's bad example that came from me [and what have i done to her blahblah.
tht might be the biggest disadvantage so far.

I think having siblings is nice for some reasons:

1) You're not alone yes my house is noisy 24/7 (i have a sister and a brother) and if you were to call at 8pm onwards i would not be able to hear you unless i hide in the toilet because its so noisy, everyone will be shouting at someone at one point of time.
2) You can borrow their stuffs/money/ whatever when you need it but don't have it. i happen to take my sis berms all the time :p my sis takes my bags.
3) You can share good/bad moments together. yes we do laugh together, and cry together (sometimes).
4) You can team up with your bro/sis for playing or doing something. normally we team up to bully someone else. or to make my mom pissed off (for the fun of it HAHAHAH, yes we are bad kids i knowww).
5) Some Hand-me-down stuffs are nice. i do the handing downs HAHAHA.
6) If you are not going to have children on your own, you still have your niece/nephew anyway. hmm i have never thought of that, but now that you mentioned, tht is quite true!
7) They can protect you. they might stand up for me but i won't count on my brother protecting me though. at least not for now.

But Maybe having siblings is

1) Annoying....violating your privacy my sis tends to stand behind me and watch me stalk youtube.
2) Always take all your stuffs... thank god most of the time she only takes my bags.
3) Everything, must be shared among bro/sis....even money and fav. cakes. that is why my mom buy things in multiples of three.
4) Sometimes, they just bring you troubles. yes and VERY unappreciative, no thank yous whatsoever.
5) They bullied you. that is correct *hides in shame since i'm the eldest*
6) If they're better than you, you'll be compared by your parents.
not really, but when some bad habit happens to the good sibling i get the blame...

well my brother is a really funny person, and my sister shares the same type of humor as ohno (the straight-faced i wnt laugh even though i said something funny kind) so it is really quite fun hanging out with them.
of course i'm saying this based on a regular basis, and not during one of the fights.
that, would be another thing whistle
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moonchild1
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Joined: 14 Aug 2008
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Location: MALAYSIA

PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 4:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am the youngest and i have 1 big brother and 1 big sister. big grin I enjoy being the youngest, because you get all the love and caring from the family. Heart Moreover, since i am a Chinese, during Chinese New Year, i am the one that get the most Ang Pau (a red pocket fill with certain amount of money that given by the older people in your family) and i dont have to give out any Ang Pau to them. Wohoo! I am such a devil, dint 1?
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Politah
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Joined: 12 Aug 2008
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Location: SA

PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 11:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote



I'm the only one all my brothers and sisters got married
even my youngest sister got marred
or you can say I'm alon

but I like contact with my youngest sister even if I'm traveling or any where
I love her nd her doughter
as if I only have her as my only sister

I have alottt of brothers and sisters
I just like traveling with brothers

but really interisting to be dif from your brothers and sisters and all of them look after u and love u in special way like what happen with me blush

1- I'm alone
2- they who borrow from me I never borrow from them :(
3-yesss share alot of things with everyone alone or all
4-sometimes.. it depends
5- yes
6- yessssssss I 've alot of nieces and nephews I love them all like my best friends and everything

-7 who can protect me maybe my brother



1- yah annoying
2 yah lol my younger sister but it is ok
3-sometimes but I affected on my younger sister let her love what I love and vv
4 not that much maybe by kidding they tell mom something I hid from her omg

5 one of my bro mostly bullied me and I do the same with him he is 43years but I don't care

6 yessssss specialy my youngest sister my mom loves her so much coz she is amazing by her behaviour or her words Eh?

mom love my older brother if she imagened he will die she started crying
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nylegna7
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Joined: 21 Aug 2008
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 7:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It sucks but at the same time it doesn't suck.

I don't know why but I'm everybody's little sister although I'm the youngest and the only girl in our family. People love to pet me especially guys. It sucks. grrrrr. confused

I'm the smallest cause I'm the youngest. blush
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majestic_fire
Johnny's Jr


Joined: 02 Aug 2008
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Location: staring at the wall

PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm an only child....It's not that bad, but sometimes it gets lonely...
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underjuvie
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 1:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmm, I'd have to say that having siblings is probably one of the best things to happen in my life. We're four in total and I'm the third to be born. All the bullying during my childhood was there but now that we're all grown up (except my younger sister) we're all close to each other and it's nice sharing your problems with people who know you best.

It might not be the same for everyone but this is how we are in our family.
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